| BDSM is short for Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission and Sadomasochism. It may be either sadistic and savage or highly erotic and sexually exciting. It bears a resemblance to a love game where one desires to be subservient and the other wants to dominate. The roles are not inflicted upon partners and can be interchangeable.
Flogging is a technique of BDSM that includes whipping or beating a sexual partner with whipping accessories, such as whips, paddles, canes, floggers etc. The flogger is a whip with lashes as a rule caled "falls". Falls are frequently made of suede, leather, rubber, rope or other soft materials. Sensations depend on the lenghth, number of falls and composition. Floggers usually fall into categories according to the sensation they cause. The sensation created by floggers can also differ according to methods used by the dominant. Floggers are frequently administered to body parts that are well-muscled or protected by body fat. The safest areas are buttocks, thighs and the upper back. To the experienced, even female breasts are allowed. Still, never flog the lower back, as flogging increases the risk of damaging kidneys. Also spare the face and the neck.
Erotic spanking is known as the act of spanking a sexual partner for the sexual satisfaction of either or both partners. Activities vary from casual sexual role-play (such as age-play) to home discipline and may be performed by a hand or with the help of a variety of spanking implements, such as a spanking paddle or cane. A lot of cultures describe physical pain as an aphrodisiac. For instance, the Kamasutra gives details of how to appropriately hit a partner during lovemaking. Titillating spankings are commonly coupled by other forms of sexual sexual stimulation, such as oral sex, sexual role-playing and/or age-play. The most widespread technique of erotic spanking is administered on bare butts but can also be coupled by bondage to up sexual drive and the feeling of submission.
A spanking kit is another essential feature of spanking. It is called a spanking skirt or a spank skirt. It has an additional opening designed to show the buttocks. Though the term "spank skirt" suggests that the wearer could be spanked "bare bottom" without removing or taking off the skirt, this item of clothing can be worn for reasons other than spanking (for instance, fetishism). Spank clothes are mormally tight-fitting and made of fetishistic materials, for instance, leather, PVC or latex. |